Gubra

Why do we hurt the most, The ones we love the most?

I personally prefer Sepet more. But then again, Gubra is a beautiful film by itself too. This time, Jason’s parents finally decided not to fight anymore. Actually, I wanted to laugh when I heard that Jason’s mom was the one that push his father down the stairs. But then again, it would be very cruel of me to laugh, right? The lovely part was when Orkid’s parents, both were lying in Orkid’s father’s hospital bed, dancing. The other scene that I remember was when Orkid found out that her husband was cheating on her with another women, she got so angry when she left, she held Jason’s brother Allan’s hand and walk off. I still find Jason better looking than his brother, but he does not have Allan's nice body :p

(Ring...Ring...)
Allan: Hello, Orkid?
Allan’s mom: Ah Mah la…

So, coming back to the tagline of the movie, “Why do we hurt the most, the ones we love the most?” Sepet 2 shows how people are hurt by the ones that they trust and love the most. Does being hurt gives us the rights to hurt the other person back? Think about it. Think about the time when Orkid said to her husband; "I promise I’ll stay. You promise Abah(father) that you will never hurt me. Jason promise me that he’ll never leave me."

As for me, “love” is never that simple, although in my whole life, all I’ve ever asked for is a simple love, simple concern, caring, and yes… love. Love can be so beautiful and wonderful when it is shown the right way. I know I am capable of loving the person that means a lot to me. I want to be so much more than just another “girl” by a guy’s side. I want to give the best I could give today because tomorrow might not come. I want so much to be that girl in my guy’s life that did touch his heart in a special way and no matter what happens in the future, knowing the fact that we might still be together or not, I will have a place in his heart. I don’t want to be someone that he will just have to eventually forget, to move on with his life. Sometimes, I do felt that there is so much more that I would like to give, so much more… but then again, giving all your love to someone does not mean that we well receive love back. The best things that can be done in situations like this are just to be contented that love did grew in my heart. The love that I had always wanted had never really turned out the way I wanted it to be. And at times, I just felt as though it’s just best not to hope for anything, because I know how it feels like, to have a lot of things around me and yet still felt that I have nothing at all. Complicated? Yes, I told you love was not simple.
"And all that I've ever did was love you. You just don't know how much you meant to me."
Ironically, love never really consist of only the intimacy and the affectionate the two person share, the environment and people around the two people usually have a bigger affect on the couple’s love.